How To Create Exactly What You Most Desire (Right Now)

North Beach of Hawaii (Honolulu)

As a highly sensitive person, self-care and the way in which we communicate to ourselves is of divine importance.

I recognize, to a degree, that the same could be said for everybody.However, if you have a propensity to become over stimulated, easily take on the emotions of others, and experience life with a depth that words cannot fully do justice in describing, then the aforementioned statement rings even more truly.

What we eat, how many hours we sleep, the people we surround ourselves with, the music we listen to, the energy of the room we walk into, the passion or love we have for the work in which we do, it all matters.

Sensitivities to life are real, and can often times be frustrating to effectively explain to others who may not experience life with the same colour.

One of the #1 aspects I help clients cultivate is the art of setting healthy boundaries for themselves.

Naturally, heart centric types can feel more connected to just helping others. There’s a sense and desire to really connect, share, and ultimately provide support to others who may be experiencing a downward trend or cycle in their lives.

There’s a level of clarity that can be seen in others facial expressions and gestures, that illuminates their true state of being in the present moment.

Love is the ultimate ingredient that we all need to feel safe and supported. One that ultimately helps us powerfully navigate through the next step of our life’s journey.

However, what if you’ve given or overextended yourself so much that you no longer have the present capacity to do so in this moment?

This can happen to many intuitive-feeler types, as this is the natural disposition and what gives them the most energy. Loving up on others.

I’ve experienced this myself personally and see it time and time again with clients.

Once the love meter runs low, the defensive mechanisms begin to go up.

Our once open, pleasurable, and welcoming demeanor turns into a guarded, closed off, and me me me centric aura.

You know why this happens?

Because our proverbial cup is completely empty and the only way to fill it back up is through time with ourselves, in order to relax, nourish, and re-invigorate our depleted systems.

As a highly sensitive and empath, this cycle will continue to persist until there’s a clear boundary that is cultivated around placing ones overall self-care, which includes the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health, first, and above all us.

I understand the art of sharing and co-creating in intimate partnerships, as I’ve been in one myself for over three years.

However, there still has to be an awareness of what is most needed on a personal level in order to operate at ones most open, authentic, and loving state.

Why?

Because this is our natural disposition. It’s how we came into this beautiful world and when harbored, leads us deeply into creating what we absolutely love.

The more time we spend “being” in a state of love, the more actions we take in “doing” from this place too.

We operate from a state of peaceful harmony.

We see all the beauty and magic that surrounds us at each moment.

We feel the abundance and joy of being alive.

We deeply see the love and connection to all creations in this world.

We fully tap into our sense of self-compassion and gratitude.

From this place we become more graceful with how we communicate to ourselves, as that relationship becomes but a reflection to how we interact and converse with all those around us.

We play closer attention to how certain words feel inside of our bodies as they’re conveyed.

We find ourselves removing the words “should, ought, must, and have to” from our vocabularies, as the vibration of these words can create states of self-judgement in our bodies on a physiological level.

We replace these with “desire, want, or love to,” as these produce a more internal peaceful and uplifting state.

We understand the power of the stories we tell ourselves, and if one no longer serves us, we send love to it, while gently freeing ourselves from the attachment to it, in order to create a new more serving one from the “right now” moment to anchor into.

This beautiful world we live in supports us at all times. It never gives us more than we can handle.

It loves and guides us through the internal compass and commands in which we outlay onto it.

The power of what we set our intentions on is paramount to what we receive back in the divine universe.

Our desires are manifested within the energetic vibration of which we harmonize with.

We don’t attract what we want, we attract what we are.

How would it feel to become that future vision of which you hold for yourself right now?

How would it feel to have faith that by honoring that love and grace of said vision, that universal law has already dictated that it is occurring in the ether of the cosmos?

The more trust, faith, and clarity of the vision that we have, the clearer we’re able to bring it to us.

This requires us to transform into that particular state of being now, in order to bring it forth.

It’s not a sit still and do nothing but dream about it aspect. It’s a fully integrated web of developing on all levels.

We surround ourselves with uplifting support systems.

We do daily activities in which we love.

We speak loving words to ourselves and others.

We powerfully recognize our desire, commit to the actions necessary for our growth, and allow them to flow into our physical existence.

We allow rather than control.

We dance rather than force.

We love what is, rather than fear what’s not.

We recognize that there will be times that we may fall out of love, and when that does happen we gently recreate the love from a place of grace.

We take our time to support it, to embrace the flower that blossoms into it, so that we can slowly absorb it’s delicate and inspirational energy.

We recognize when tuned back into love.

We say thank you and send a beautiful bow to the universe for the support.

We begin to fully love again.

Our actions deeply align to this ever-expansive state of being.

We choose to prioritize this state over all else.

We create balance within all parts of our bodies.

Physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual.

We cultivate, honor, and respect all these states as holistic equals, with heightened awareness as to what is needed individually to harmonize them all.

From this state we recognize that we’re in the world but not of the world.

We see with peaceful eyes to all that is.

We recognize that anything we judge is but a direct judgment we’ve made against ourselves.

We send love to everything and everyone.

We love to love, with no sense of attachment to what’s on the other side of that love.

We live.

We be.

We see.

We dance.

We love.

And throughout it all, we express a deep sense of gratitude for all that is, was, and remains to be.

From the depth of my heart, the divinity of my soul, and the grace of the present moment.

With Love,

Brandon